ISLAMIC CODES OF DIVORCE

TALAQ!TALAQ!!TALAQ!!!

A news from Dinamalar on 25-10-2016 said that Modi is keen to prohibit the code of divorce to break a marriage by Muslims by say at a single event talaq!talaq!!talaq!!!.

The news did not elaborate clearly what was the aim of Modi.

Because at a single event breaking the marriage for ever by saying three times talaq!talaq!!talaq!!! is not the Islamic code of divorce.There are some pagan Muslims out of ignorance and without having a detailed Islamic knowledge are practicing such a stupid and foolish procedure.They are misguided by some half knowledged Islamic preachers.Islam is nothing to do with this and is not responsible for that.If Modi is keen to prohibit such a cruel pagan act,a true Muslim will warmly welcome it.But his moto is not clear.

In Islam Allah allows a process which he hates,that  is the process of divorce.

Because he puts forth several condition to break the marriage.By his conditions he safe guard both the sides.

A talaq can be said once at one situation only.Even if a man said talaq ten times also it is considered to be the first and one talaq only.

After the first talaq the man if he changed his mind and want his wife back to him then he can call her back to reconcile  without any condition or witnesses within a period of four months. Even if four months passed, also he can reconcile her with some witnesses.These opportunities are given only for two times(means  in two occations)

If in a third occation if the man said talaq to the same wife he lost the opportunity of reconcile her back freely as before.Because Islam do not allow talaq to be played as an irresponsible act of playing games.

Islam allows divorce to be performed in a mere simple way without any complication to prevent disasters.If a man married with a woman because of parents imposition,but has no love or admiration with her then their life will become a burden and pity.It will be a hell for them to lead the life to destiny.Mens always have very weak mind which always try to escape from the trap by any means.It may go towards shortcut routes to solve the problem.

There are many reasons for a man to select a woman to tie the knot with her.

1.Her Prettiness and beuty

2.Her Wealthy backround

3.Her Family diginity

4.Her good manners.

Among the four reasons mentioned above Islam advice a man to have a happy married life select a woman to tie a knot for the fourth reason only.

But these are mostly not in practices.Even among the Muslims parents are fixing partners for their children according to their own taste.Mostly they selects partners for diginity,education,and wealth.The last or no preference is given to good manners.Hence most of the married partners are not enjoying much with happiness in their life.Some seeks divorce,some are patient,and some ends in peril.

There is no divorce in Hindu and other religion.They should live together by any means.In Christianity especially in RC marriage is fixed in Heaven.In Hindu religion the marriage knot is witnessed by the Angel of Agni and hence no one dire to break it apart.No divorce is possible but on contrary dowry is allowed on another side.

Divorce is possible by going to court but our jurisdiction put the case on pending for endless time ridiculously.The jurors and judges do not care about the hungry of the partners seeking solution for their problem.They care only for their month end salary and how to pass the month without working by putting endless pendings of the hearings.By the way they will waste the time by means of worthless counselling also.

By this period many things can happen.Fire accident,cooking stove explosion,electric shock,food poisoning and so on can happen to either partner.
Hence Islam does not beleives such concept marriage is fixed in Heaven or witnessed by any Angel.It says marriage is merely an agreement between a man and a woman to live as life partners.If any one breach it maximum try to rectify it by mutual counselling or safely break it apart.

To prevent all these disasters Islams says if either one or both of them have differences in any deals first thing Islam is advising the women give respect to her husband.Try to go with him and accept his moral orders.Make him happy and comfort because he take care of the family.

Similarly Islam advice the man also try to be soft towards her as she is very weak.Any problem try to solve it amicably by giving away some balances as women are by nature adamant.

After all the above things are not work out Islam says separate their bed apart from each other.Get counselling from the relatives, and neighbours.

If further the above things are not working out then say one talaq.

These are the Talaq Concepts of Islam. If Modi wants to ban this concept that means he indirectly allow the people in jeopardy.

A Question To Our P.M

Are you aware of that  you have been elected by the people(among them Muslims) by your promises to give them safe and prosperous life?